How it works
How Date to Marry works
Five short steps, and no swiping in any of them. What follows is exactly what happens from the moment you download the app.
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Tell us who you are
Answer real questions about your faith, family goals, finances, and how you handle conflict. Takes about 20 minutes. If that feels like too much, this probably is not the right app for you.
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Meet one person at a time
Every match is scored against your stated values and non-negotiables before you see it. We tell you why we think you are a good fit. No stack of faces. No guessing games.
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Talk with purpose
We start you off with conversation prompts that go deeper than small talk. After a few days, the app helps you set up a real date. In person.
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Grow together
After you match, Date to Marry stays with you. A private journal for things your partner cares about. Date night ideas. Even a direct line to marriage counselors when life gets tough.
What you actually get
One match at a time
A single person, and no one else in the background. Nothing to compare them against, nobody else waiting, no queue to work through. A truly one-to-one experience.
Matched on what decides a marriage
Faith, children, where you will live, your timeline, how you would run a household. Not photographs, not shared hobbies.
A written reason for every match
Each introduction arrives with an explanation of why the two of you, scored against the things you said were non-negotiable. No black box.
Conversation worth having
Guided questions for the first days, so the opening message is never "hey" — then prompts drawn from the research on how two strangers become close.
Date ideas and a partner journal
A private place to note what they love and what they need, and daily suggestions for how to show up, drawn from their own words. Plus date nights worth clearing an evening for.
Counselling, when we open it
A directory of licensed relationship counsellors, so asking for help early is a normal thing rather than a last resort. It is built and not open yet — there are no practitioners in it, and we would rather say so than pretend.
Not a subscription. A community.
Most dating apps charge you every month and make more money the longer you stay single. Date to Marry works differently. You pay once to join. When you find your person, you are invited to pay it forward so someone else can find theirs.
The people who came before you helped make your journey possible. When you succeed, you do the same for the next person.
What happens after the match
Ready to date with intention?
It is live on iPhone and Android. One person at a time, chosen for what actually predicts a lasting marriage.
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